As an eighteen-year-old college freshman, Carl Lord dedicated his life to Christianity. Vowing to remain a virgin until marriage, Carl’s celibate lifestyle ended at forty-two years of age, resulting in a son being born out of wedlock.

"Dear Gavin" is an emotional journey of persistence, divine intervention, and a father’s unquestionable love. The title, "Dear Gavin" is taken from Carl’s personal letter to Gavin included at the beginning of the book, telling Gavin how much he loves him and the honor he feels in being his daddy.